Bio: I am a woman. I am a mother. I am a sister. I am an ex-wife. I am a daughter. I am a friend. I am trying to figure out this whole crazy dating thng out. This is my story. This is my journey. This is our story. These are my feelings, my experiences, my thoughts as I have gone through being the other woman and the peaks and valleys of being the other woman. This is my raw emotions for anyone wondering where their affair will lead and the emotions, pain and joy that comes with loving another woman's husband. Let this be a safe and a place of no judgement to come with questions and answers. This is my true story. I met W in the winter of the 2013. I had just ended an engagement with a man I was with for three years, because he had cheated many times over the years. I hung in there, but in the end he broke off the engagement. I would find out later it was because he had gotten another woman pregnant. When I met W he turned my world around and healed all my hurt...so it seemed. I thought I had met a widower that lived in my hometown, who was childless. I would find out 3 months into falling in love with W...that his name was different, he lived in a different town than I thought, that his wife was not deceased and he had children. It was a tough blow, but we were/are in love. We resolved to be together and to tackle what that would look like together. Since then he has gone back and forth about getting divorced. I have tried to end things once. It lasted about 3 weeks, until I had some pretty stressful stuff come up in my life. This is my story as I deal with being his OW and what that entails. Update - I am no longer the other woman - I am going to leave this, because I know there are others struggling - This is now the story of my recovery and healing. There is life after being the other woman.