Wow! Just simply WOW!!!
At some point in a tepid marriage I think you look at each other and simply say “eh, fuck it”. It’s not like you are horrible together, you just aren’t good. You weigh that against the crap of upheaval that happens as the result of a divorce and you basically do the math on a marriage dissolution. More often than not, it’s just more cost effective to stay married and continue living the separate lives you have already created for yourself.
Convenience can be a very harsh word when used in relationship to a union between people that should have been about passion and long term commitment; accepting neutrality as opposed to emotional connectedness. When you do not want to destroy the individuals inside a family because of financial and emotional pressures that come when you divide spaces, you have to accept the awareness that comes with that choice. Giving…
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